Is Your Boyfriend Bad at Communicating or Just an Asshole?

Communication something that most boyfriends are not really that good at. This can be extremely frustrating for you to have to deal with especially if you want the relationship to go anywhere. It’s difficult to get anything to happen if your boyfriend is extremely tight lipped or just bad at communication. For this reason, you may find yourself struggling with the idea of him just being bad at communication. The more issues you have that this sort of thing, the more you may start to wonder: is your boyfriend really that bad at communicating or is he just being an asshole? This may seem harsh, but it really is something you need to be considering. Some guys truly are bad at communicating because they never learned how to do it, but some guys are just being assholes when they refuse to communicate properly. You are obviously going to want to know the difference so that you can determine what the real issue is. If you are worried about this, here’s what you need to keep in mind.

Is There Really a Difference?

Sometimes He Acts Like An Asshole

Sometimes He Acts Like An Asshole

You may be wondering if there is even really a difference when it comes to this. Are guys really that bad at communicating or are they just being assholes? The truth is that while some guys definitely never learned how to communicate, some of them just think it is manlier not to talk about their feelings or talk through any issues. This is not okay. It really doesn’t matter what society things, if you are having issues in your relationship, you should be older talk them out like to responsible and mature adults. There’s really not that big of a difference between someone who is bad at communicating and someone who is just being an asshole. It’s not something you should put up with.

He’s Just Bad at Communicating, but He Means Well

He Means Well... But Doesn't Know How To Communicate His Feelings

He Means Well… But Doesn’t Know How To Communicate His Feelings

Of course, some guys are just bad at communicating but they still mean well. You should be older tell when this is the case because even though he may not be a little express his feelings properly, he makes an effort to fix any situations that arise. He may not always be that expressive, but if the two of you are having a struggle, he does his best to try and work things out. This may be the case of a guy who just doesn’t really know how to communicate about his feelings but means well. This isn’t the end of the world.

He’s at the Emotional Level of a Literal Child

He Has The Emotional Maturity Of A Child

He Has The Emotional Maturity Of A Child

On the other hand, you have some guys who are at the emotional level of a literal child. These man babies have no idea how to communicate with a grown adult, much less someone they are in a romantic relationship with. This isn’t an excuse. Basically, you are dating an asshole. These guys have no idea how to behave like an adult and they have no wish to, either. You’re supposed to be dating a grown man, not another child to take care of.

Knowing When It’s Time to Sever the Tie

If the lack of communication is beginning to become a serious problem, you need to know when it is time to sever the tie. This is obviously not easy to do if you have been with the person for a while, but if the communication is really that bad, it’s time to let go. If you have tried to fix the issue several times but your boyfriend has not gotten any better communicating, it’s time to give up. You cannot change guys like this and it’s not even worth trying. There are plenty of other fish in the sea for you.