5 Reasons Not to Spy on Your Boyfriend

Men and women both can be deceitful people who hide things and lie to get their own way. You see this happen in relationships all over the world all the time. It doesn’t give you much faith in relationships, does it? It’s a sad truth but most people assume that their significant others are lying about something or they’re waiting for the day when they do feel suspicious. This might be the case, but it’s extremely important not to snoop on your boyfriend until you have hard evidence of infidelity. You’re Showing Him You Have Trust Issues Think about why exactly you’re spying on him. Do you have a good reason or are you just being preemptive about any suspicions you may have down the road? You’re basically waving a huge red flag around that says you can’t trust anyone if you’re doing the latter. Your trust issues are your own problem and not his so learn to deal. If he finds out, you look like a crazy person who has glaring trust issues and he probably won’t exactly jump Read More …